It is amazing how people complain about almost everything. Some people always have something negative to say, they just sit, nag and murmur all day long. You hear them say things like: “no one wants to help me, people do not care about me, everyone hates me”. Hey! No one owes you their attention and as a matter of fact, everyone is so busy attending to their life situations. It is an indication that you have to mind your business and take a bold step forward. You know, each time we dwell so much on a particular subject, we hinder ourselves from moving forward.
Have you ever thought of it this way?While in the process of doing your thing, someone might just appreciate your efforts and probably render that assistance you have been expecting. You do not have to wait for a push before you do the right things. People do not have to insult you before those great ideas pop in. Be your own motivation.
We are in the 21st century, there are loads of things you can do on your own. Research, learn a skill, impact lives and be useful to those around you. Do not go around with “negative vibes” It is actually irritating when all you do is whine all the time. People would stay away from you because you have nothing good to offer. Do not get out of bed each day without setting goals. You must be able to give account of how you spent your day. Something has to change about you everyday, positively of course.
Setting goals is not enough. Failure to execute them makes you a mere dreamer. Be very patient, it is a virtue everyone should covet. Things do not just fall in place, be resilient! Prove to the world that you are worth more than they can imagine.
Anthony J. D’angelo said: if you have time to whine and complain about something then you have the time to do something about it.